Let’s start by clearing up the distinction between adultery and infidelity:
Adultery – you’re married and you have sex with someone outside the bounds of marriage.
Infidelity – you’re not married and voluntarily have sex with someone outside of a monogamous relationship.
Either way, you’re cheating outside of a relationship.
If you suspect your spouse is cheating on you, it might make sense to hire the services of an infidelity private investigator. Here in Malaysia, we specialize in infidelity investigations. “But, before you call us regarding adultery, we feel it is in your best interest to talk directly to your spouse about your concerns as they arise”. Communication is the most effective way to resolve problems in an intimate relationship. However, this doesn’t apply when it comes to concerns about infidelity. Talking to a spouse who is already cheating only makes it more difficult to actually discover the truth.
Private investigators who conduct infidelity investigations are licensed to gather information, engage in surveillance and understand what is permitted under permitted federal government law. If there is a potential for legal proceedings to exist, i.e. child custody, alimony, marital assets were used to support an extra marital affair, and divorce, hiring an private investigator may help minimize your risk. If you collect information about your spouse, the information may be useless because of how it was obtained.
Hiring an private investigator helps minimize the chances of information being thrown out during legal procedures. Remember, private investigators are allowed to testify on your behalf. Having a third-party present information will appear less biased and more credible.